Welcome to my blog, or should I say to the ramblings of an old man. I doubt that my ramblings are of much value, but at least I have an opportunity to share them.  So, please be kind and humor me. If nothing else of value stands out in these thoughts, I hope that you at least sense the value I place on a daily walk with the Lord.  That walk is what has provided me with motivation and a sense of purpose throughout my lifetime.  My prayer is that you, too, are experiencing this direction and joy in daily living which is available to everyone who puts his trust in Christ.  So, thanks again for joining me.  Please don't go without leaving some comments here so I can get to know you better as our paths intersect today in this blog.

Saturday, January 25, 2020

Alone?

          Do you know the legend of the Cherokee Indian youth's rite of passage?   His dad takes him into the forest blindfolded and leaves him alone. He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not take off the blindfold until the ray of sun shines through it. 
          He is all by himself. He cannot cry out for help to anyone. Once he survives the night, he is a MAN. He cannot tell the other boys of this experience. Each lad must come into his own manhood. 
          The boy was, naturally, terrified. He could hear all kinds of noise. Beasts were all around him. Maybe even a human would hurt him. The wind blew the grass and earth and it shook his stump. But he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold. It would be the only way he could be a man. 
          Finally, after a horrific night the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold. It was then that he saw his father sitting on the stump next to him - at watch the entire night. 
          Now none of us have ever had to go through such a rite of passage, but we've all faced similar situations when we felt that we were all alone with no one to help us or care for us. Those can be very stressful times.
          Sometimes they happen in the middle of the night when your spouse or your child suddenly gets sick.  What do you do, where do you get help?  You think daylight will never come.  If only you had somebody to give you advice or help.  Been there, done that - too often.
          It can happen when a loved one is in surgery and you wait all alone to get some advice on how they are doing.  Time seems to drag so slowly as you face the anxiety of not knowing what is happening.  Been there, experienced that as well.
         Maybe you are waiting alone for a loved one to come home and they are very late.  You can imagine all sorts of terrible possibilities.  Or maybe you are all alone when a heavy storm hits or there are tornado warnings.  What can you do?
          There are so many situations during our lives when we face the unknown all alone and we live in fear.  If only we had somebody with us to calm our fears, give us advice or protect us.  It is like that young man who must sit on the stump, blindfolded and thinking he is all alone throughout the night.
          But like the young man, believers are never alone.  In Hebrews 3:5 the Lord assures us that  "I will never fail you. I will never abandon you."   And He has never abandoned us and He never will.
          May we be reminded of this story and of the truth of Hebrews 3>5 the next time we face such a situation.

(1)     I've seen the lightning flashing, 
I've heard the thunder roll.
I've felt sin's breakers dashing, 
which almost conquered my soul.
I've heard the voice of my Savior, 
bidding me still to fight on.
He promised never to leave me, 
never to leave me alone!
No, never alone, no never alone,
He promised never to leave me,
He'll claim me for His own;
No, never alone, no never alone.
He promised never to leave me,
Never to leave me alone.

(2)    The world's fierce winds are blowing, 
temptation sharp and keen.
I have a peace in knowing 
my Savior stands between—
He stands to shield me from danger 
when my friends are all gone.
He promised never to leave me, 
never to leave me alone!
No, never alone, no never alone,
He promised never to leave me,
He'll claim me for His own;
No, never alone, no never alone.
He promised never to leave me,
Never to leave me alone.

(3)     When in affliction's valley 
I tread the road of care,
My Savior helps me carry 
the cross so heavy to bear;
Though all around me is darkness, 
earthly joys all flown;
My Savior whispers His promise, 
never to leave me alone!
No, never alone, no never alone,
He promised never to leave me,
He'll claim me for His own;
No, never alone, no never alone.
He promised never to leave me,
Never to leave me alone.

(4)     He died on Calvary's mountain, 
for me they pierced His side.
For me He opened that fountain, 
the crimson, cleansing tide.
For me He waiteth in glory, 
seated upon His throne.
He promised never to leave me, 
never to leave me alone!
No, never alone, no never alone,
He promised never to leave me,
He'll claim me for His own;
No, never alone, no never alone.
He promised never to leave me,
Never to leave me alone.

Saturday, January 18, 2020

Getting Old (LB)

LOOKING BACK - Repeating and editing a blog that I first published on April 26, 2010

         As I've gotten older I've enjoyed reading lists of funny items that share things that show you are getting older. And I usually laugh along and think, yes, I can relate to many of them. But today I've been doing some reflecting and I've developed my own list of bservations that make me realize how old I really am. I don't know if they are funny, but they certainly are true. So here goes. 

          I know I am getting old ... (1) When my former high school students are now retiring ... 
         (2) When I read that my physics prof who came to Susquehanna when I was a freshman is considering retiring next year - his 51st year at Susquehanna ... 
         (3) When daily I read the obituaries in the newspaper (and not really to see if I am there) and I see names of people that I've known ... 
        (4) When all the nurses and secretaries at our family medical practice call me by my first name - because I have been there so often ... 
        (5) When people ask me if I am going to retire from an activity that I have directed for years - maybe they think I should ... 
        (6) When the daughter of a friend of ours is about to graduate from high school and I actually remember when her mother was born and said her first words ... 
         (7) When I suddenly enjoy reading about history, especially local history, which I never really cared for before ... 
         (8) When one of my sons talks about what he wants as a gift - for his 40th birthday ... 
         (9) When I purchase salt for the water softener knowing that our family is coming for dinner and I will have somebody to carry it to the basement for me ... 
         (10) When the term "donut-hole" means medical insurance to me and not something related to a tasty food that I used to be able to eat - years ago ... 
         (11) When my youngest grandson (3 years old when this was written) not only enjoys computer games, but is very good at playing them ... 
        (12) When my family comes for a birthday dinner and two of the cars are driven by my grandchildren. It now won't be too long until six of my grandchildren will be driving - then I know I will be old!   
         Getting older does have some unfortunate disadvantages - your body no longer works like it used to, your wisdom and experience are seldom valued, younger folks have little time for you, you really aren't really needed for anything anymore, and many of your closest friends have already graduated to heaven. I guess that is why so many older people often become bitter and critical. 
         But there are also many advantages to getting older - you get senior citizens discounts and you get to support many different doctors. And your faith in the Lord often becomes stronger as you realize your growing need for Him.
         But in all seriousness, each day is a gift from the Lord and a chance to grow closer to Him. Each day gives you a chance to secretly intercede for others - and you now have the time to do it. We never know what a day will bring, but I am learning every day to say. "this is the day which the Lord has made and I will rejoice and be glad in it." Have a great day today!

When all my labors and trials are over,
And I am safe on that beautiful shore,
Just to be near the dear Lord I adore,
Will through the ages be glory for me.
O that will be glory for me,
Glory for me, glory for me,
When by His grace I shall look on His face,
That will be glory, be glory for me.

When, by the gift of His infinite grace,
I am accorded in heaven a place,
Just to be there and to look on His face,
Will through the ages be glory for me.
O that will be glory for me,
Glory for me, glory for me,
When by His grace I shall look on His face,
That will be glory, be glory for me.

Friends will be there I have loved long ago;
Joy like a river around me will flow;
Yet just a smile from my Savior, I know,
Will through the ages be glory for me.
O that will be glory for me,
Glory for me, glory for me,
When by His grace I shall look on His face,
That will be glory, be glory for me.

Saturday, January 11, 2020

Some Food Advice

          There are plenty of sources today to get medical advice.  However, one must be very careful and check the source of any advice that you are given.  So recently I came upon some interesting advice which I want to pass on to you.

Q:    I've heard that cardiovascular exercise can prolong life. Is this true?
A:    Your heart is only good for so many beats, and that's it  ... Don't waste them on exercise. Everything wears out eventually. Speeding up your heart will not make you live longer; that's like saying you can extend the life of your car by driving it faster. Want to live longer? Take a nap.

Q:      Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables? 
A:      You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a cow eat? Hay and corn. And what are these? Vegetables. So a steak is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system. Need grain? Eat chicken. Beef is also a good source of field grass (green leafy vegetable). And a pork chop can give you 100% of your recommended daily allowance of vegetable products.

Q:      How can I calculate my body/fat ratio? 
A:      Well, if you have a body, and you have body fat, your ratio is one to one. If you have two bodies, your ratio is two to one, etc.

Q:      What are some of the advantages of participating a regular exercise program? 
A:      Can't think of a single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No Pain ... Good.

Q:      Aren't fried foods bad for you? 
A:      You're not listening. Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil. In fact, they're permeated in it. How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?

Q:      What's the secret to healthy eating? 
A:      Thicker gravy.

Q.     I've heard that it is healthier to eat colorful food.  Is that true?
A.      Certainly.  Grab a handful of M&M's whenever you have a chance!

Q:      Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little soft around the middle? 
A:      Definitely not! When you exercise a muscle, it gets bigger. You should only be doing sit-ups if you want a bigger stomach.

Q:      Is chocolate bad for me? 
A:      Are you crazy? HELLO  ......  Cocoa beans  ...  another vegetable!!! It's the best feel good food around!

Well, I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets.  Now go have a cookie .. . flour is a veggie!

Saturday, January 4, 2020

Retirement

         Retirement is something that most workers look forward to.  And I am glad when I hear that retirement has been good for my friends.  But not all workers get to enjoy the retirement we normally think of.  Some of my best friends were called home to heaven - a better form of retirement than retirement in this world.
          One's retirement not only affects family members  but often it affects many others.  I continually experience that as I grow older.  I miss many of my friendships and I miss some who have had unique relationships in my life.
          It was difficult losing my friend Bill Miller who for many years before he retired serviced our cars .  He was an expert mechanic who would go out of his way to help us.  And, unlike most mechanics he was reasonable with his charges.  He often helped us in unexpected times of need.
         Then there is my high school classmate, Glen Zartman, who took over Zartman's Dodge from his father.  For several decades he sold us all of our cars.  He found just the right cars for us and he gave us excellent deals.  Unlike many dealers, he was honest and could be trusted.  After he retired it was a challenge to find someone we could trust.  Fortunately I still see him at our class reunions, but he is no longer selling cars.
          Then there were two of my family doctors - Dr. Richard Bryson and Dr. David Fuchs. They were exceptional. They really cared and would go out of their  way to help us.  They would spend time to do things to help us that young doctors don't do today.  They were really family doctors, unlike most of the young ones today.
         As you grow older you find many examples of people who cared and could be counted on.  But they  retire and are no longer available to provide the support that you want and need.  And this loss has happened to be again - twice, just this past weekend.
         On Tuesday my longtime barber, John Barley, retired.  He has faithfully cut my hair since about 1970.  He was not only a good barber but he was my friend and a Christian brother.  We shared quite a bit whenever he was cutting my hair and he was always ready to help whenever he knew that we needed something.  And he prayed for us regularly.  I will miss my appointments and fellowship with him.
          Then last Sunday another retirement occurred. My pastor, David Thomann retired after 39 years of ministry in our church.  He was my pastor and friend for exactly half of my life and I will miss him. I helped recruit him to our church in Lancaster.  He was excellent in the pulpit and over the years we ministered together in many projects.  He dedicated, baptized, and married most of my children and grandchildren. He is the only pastor that some of them knew. He buried my parents and my brother as well as many of my close friends. He was a very important part of our lives. We already miss him.
          But I thank the Lord for may people who came into my life over the years and provided the help and friendship that I needed.  But while good friends may retire and move on, thankfully the Lord doesn't retire or leave us.  He remains our friend and we can always depend upon Him.

(1)     A friend of Jesus! O what bliss
That one so vile as I
Should ever have a Friend like this
To lead me to the sky!
Friendship with Jesus!
Fellowship divine!
O what blessed, sweet communion!
Jesus is a Friend of mine.

(2)     A Friend when other friendships cease,
A Friend when others fail,
A Friend Who gives me joy and peace,
A Friend when foes assail!
Friendship with Jesus!
Fellowship divine!
O what blessed, sweet communion!
Jesus is a Friend of mine.

(3)     A Friend when sickness lays me low,
A Friend when death draws near,
A Friend as through the vale I go,
A Friend to help and cheer!
Friendship with Jesus!
Fellowship divine!
O what blessed, sweet communion!
Jesus is a Friend of mine.

(4)     A Friend when life's short race is o'er
A Friend when earth is past,
A Friend to meet on Heaven's shore,
A Friend when home at last!
Friendship with Jesus!
Fellowship divine!
O what blessed, sweet communion!
Jesus is a Friend of mine.