Welcome to my blog, or should I say to the ramblings of an old man. I doubt that my ramblings are of much value, but at least I have an opportunity to share them.  So, please be kind and humor me. If nothing else of value stands out in these thoughts, I hope that you at least sense the value I place on a daily walk with the Lord.  That walk is what has provided me with motivation and a sense of purpose throughout my lifetime.  My prayer is that you, too, are experiencing this direction and joy in daily living which is available to everyone who puts his trust in Christ.  So, thanks again for joining me.  Please don't go without leaving some comments here so I can get to know you better as our paths intersect today in this blog.

Saturday, July 23, 2022

Another Heat Wave

          As you know, we are in the midst of a tough wave that is affecting many countries.  Many records are being set.  Because of this I have decided to repeat a blog that I previously had shared.  Think cool!
        
So which would you prefer, the record heat waves we have been experiencing or the frozen record cold days of the winter?  Both can produce serious challenges and health risks.
           That can be a tough question and it depends upon other issues.  Do you have electricity to run your furnace or ac?  Are both pieces of equipment working?  Must you travel or even be outside?  Must the sidewalks be shoveled or the grass mowed?
          Now I imagine everyone has a preference, but assuming my furnace and ac are operating and my pipes aren't freezing, I prefer the cold.  When it is cold you can put on heavier clothing ot blankets.  But when it is hot you must take things off ... if that is even possible.  And I do hate the humidity which can accompany the high temperatures and be horrendous especially  in Lancaster County.
          I am one of those who grew up without air conditioning.  My parents never had central air.  Later in life - after we three kids left - they did purchase two window units, one for their bedroom and one for the dining room/kitchen.  I'm not sure when they finally bought their first car with ac but I know it wasn't until later in life.  Central air and air conditioning in your car were seen as luxuries to them.  They were only for the "rich".  We "poor" folks just learned to adjust to the heat the best that we could.  And adjust we did, or at least we tried to.
          I can still remember those horrendously hot and humid nights when I was growing up.  Often I would take my pillow and a cover down from my second floor bedroom to the living room.  I would open our side door to the porch and lay in front of the door just trying to catch a small breeze.  Sometimes I did, but it was always small and never too refreshing.
          When we rode in our car we always rode with all the windows open and you tried to get a seat next to the window and enjoy the resulting breeze.  A neighbor boy owned a convertible and if you were fortunate you could go for a ride with him once un awhile.  We endured sitting in school and in church and living in tents at camp meeting in the hot summer days.  And we didn't complain - we had no other alternative.
          When I was in college I attended church in Sunbury, without ac of course.  But outside the right side of the building were row homes whose porches adjoined the side of the church.  On hot summer days the church windows were opened exposing the porches.  The residents had no privacy from the church services on Sundays and the congregation had to endure the actions of the neighbors.
          Incidentally, early in June we were married in that sanctuary.  I wore my black wool suit, the only suit that I owned.   The heat, humidity, my suit and my nervousness were a great combination that day.
          In our early days of marriage our only relief from the heat came from a large window fan which we purchased.  It would blow the hot air out and pull the cooler air in from other open windows.  It was the best that we could afford in those days.  Years later we were able to add some window air conditioners that served us until 1991 when we finally could afford central air.  That was 29 years after we were married.
          In 1967 we spent eight weeks in Tallahassee, Florida, while I was attending Florida State University.  It was really hot there but not nearly as humid as we were used to back home.  And at that time, every place there, including our apartment had central air.  That was a summer that we enjoyed.
          But probably my worst experience with the heat came during my teaching career at Penn Manor.   For almost two thirds of my 39 years my office and classrooms were on the third floor, east side of a brick building with no ac or even cross ventilation.  The sun would hit those windows and it was often over 90 degrees when the day began.  And while we had a fan for each room it did little to make it comfortable all day.  After an hour of teaching I was often "soaked" with perspiration and often had to change my shirt.  I pitied my students who had to suffer through those conditions as well as through my teaching.  For years I begged the school to at least install some exhaust fans to move the air.  But as they sat in their air conditioned offices the administrators could never decide to support my requests.  So we suffered.
          Thankfully, during the last third of my years of teaching I took on K-12 duties and then was first given an office in the ninth grade building and then in an elementary school.  Both had central ac.  Then, in 1997, a major renovation also gave me a classroom with ac.  That helped make teaching fun once again.
          As I've watched the news of the recent heat waves I can't help but wonder how folks survive, especially vulnerable seniors.  Many of the folks in the northwest region didn't even have ac, something you just assume everyone has today.
          I also often think of my parents and how they survived all their lives without central air.  But they were hardy folks who lived through many difficult times.  And they trusted the Lord and He provided - ALL their needs.  May I  exercise the same faith.
          Keep cool - the summer isn't over yet!


Friday, July 15, 2022

Happy Birthday

Happy birthday to you.
Happy birthday to you.
Happy birthday dear Bowen,
Happy birthday to you.
 
          That is the song that we will be singing today with our neighbors as they celebrate their son's fist birthday.  They have spent the entire week preparing for the party by painting, trimming shrubbery, mulching and cleaning the yard.  Everything looks great and his parents are excited.
          They've also purchased a large plastic inflatable pool for him.  If I were in better shape physically, I would love to just go and sit in it to keep cool.  But I might not be able to get out when I was done.
          We've been invited to the party but I don't know if we will go.  We've purchased a present for Bowen.  However, I have trouble walking and standing, especially on uneven ground.  
          I do look forward to the day when I might be able to entertain Bowen.  It has been 16 years since we have had a baby in our family.  It will now be three months until we have another one, but since he will live in the Boston area our chances to hold him will be very limited.
          Now every family celebrates birthdays differently.  Some have big celebrations with parties and loads of presents.  Others have low key celebrations.  Others, like us, have never done much to celebrate.
          I don't know if I ever had a birthday party growing up.  I don't remember any presents, but then I don't remember any Christmas presents either.  I think I might have had a party or two as an adult. Most years birthdays are just another day for us.
          As we get older our celebrations also change.  We did go out to eat on my wife's 82nd birthday this week but we also stopped to purchase our colonoscopy prep kits.  And we also went to get our covid booster shots.  What a contrast with the celebration of Bowen's birthday.
          We did have low-key celebrations for our boys, a few parties and usually cash gifts.  It's not much of an excuse, but our family finances were very tight when they were children.
          But we did take the birthdays of our seven grandchildren more seriously.  For each birthday we prepared a special shaped birthday cake – animals, sporting goods, instruments, etc.  Then they were able to plan their own special birthday meal which the entire family met to enjoy.  These are special memories.  Unfortunately, the pandemic brought these celebrations to an end.
          Now there is one very special birthday that we do celebration – the birth of Jesus at Christmas.  We have many traditions that have included Candlelight Services, Christmas Eve buffets, enjoying memories from the past year on DVD's, praying together, exchange of gifts and times of sharing.
          But the best celebration is still to come and I hope that you will join me.  Someday soon we will celebrate with the Lord in heaven.  Many of our family members and friends are already there celebrating and we will soon join them.  That's a party I look forward to attending!

Saturday, July 9, 2022

A Summer Job?

          This year there are many openings for those looking for summer jobs.  And some of the jobs could be very interesting.  If I were younger and physically able there are many I would enjoy trying.  But, …
          Some of these jobs would be challenging, especially those dealing with the public.  You never know what to expect when you deal with people.  Most tourists are friendly but others are "nuts".
          For example, here are some actual comments left last year on Forest Service registration sheets and comment cards by backpackers completing wilderness camping trips.  Read and enjoy and be glad that you aren't the one dealing with these tourists.
 
"A small deer came into my camp and stole my bag of pickles. Is there a way I can get reimbursed? Please call."
 
"Escalators would help on steep uphill sections."
 
"Instead of a permit system or regulations, the Forest Service needs to reduce worldwide population growth to limit the number of visitors to wilderness."
 
"Trails need to be wider so people can walk while holding hands."
 
"Ban walking sticks in wilderness. Hikers that use walking sticks are more likely to chase animals."
 
"All the mile markers are missing this year."
 
"Found a smoldering cigarette left by a horse."
 
"Trails need to be reconstructed. Please avoid building trails that go uphill."
 
"Too many bugs and leeches and spiders and spider webs. Please spray the wilderness to rid the area of these pests."
 
"Please pave the trails so they can be plowed of snow in the winter."
 
"Chair lifts need to be in some places so that we can get to wonderful views without having to hike to them."
 
"The coyotes made too much noise last night and kept me awake.  Please eradicate these annoying animals."
 
"Reflectors need to be placed on trees every 50 feet so people can hike at night with flashlights."
 
"Need more signs to keep area pristine."
 
"A McDonald's would be nice at the trail head."
 
"The places where trails do not exist are not well marked."
 
"Too many rocks in the mountains."
 
So what do you think?  Should we pass these on to President Joe?  Afterall he'll promise to do everything, no matter what the cost.

Saturday, July 2, 2022

Best Friends

 I have been including writings which I have made for my grandchildren.  

A brother can be a very special friend.  A brother will defend you and share with you when others won't.  A brother will help you and go out of his way for you.  I have been very fortunate to have a great brother and I thank the Lord for him.
 
But the Bible says, "there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother"  (Proverbs 18:24) and that friend is the Lord Jesus Christ, the best friend anyone can ever have.  He has told us that "I will never leave thee nor forsake thee" (Hebrews 13:5) and He has always kept that promise.  He is the best friend that you can ever have.  I pray that He is your best friend, too.
 
An old hymn says "What a Friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and griefs to bear! What a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer! O what peace we often forfeit, O what needless pain we bear, All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer. Have we trials and temptations?  Is there trouble anywhere?  We should never be discouraged; take it to the Lord in prayer. Can we find a friend so faithful who will all our sorrows share? Jesus knows our every weakness; take it to the Lord in prayer."
 
But the Lord also blesses us by giving us some very special human friends. It is so important to have friends who love the Lord and help us do things that please Him.  When I was in junior high and working at Mizpah Grove the Lord blessed me with some adult friends who watched over me during the summer.  These were Charlie Mann, Roy Hertzog and Leonard and Nina Buck, all of whom went on to serve the Lord as missionaries around the world.  They were friends who had a profound influence on me and my Christian life..
 
While I didn't have any real close Christian friends in high school, that changed in college.  I met Jim Herrold as a freshman and then we roomed together for two years.  He has been like a brother since that time.  Through our church in Sunbury I became close friends with Paul Brosious and Norm Zellers.  They, too, were very special and the Lord used them in various ways in my life. Later in life Gary Varner, Ralph Michel, and Claire Harstad became close friends and they and their families shared much with our family over the years.
 
But as special as all of these folks have been, none of them became my closest friend on earth.
My first contact with my closest friend on earth came when she wrote me a letter before I entered Susquehanna University.  The letter, written by the secretary of the youth group, was an invitation to attend her church and youth group while I was at Susquehanna.
 
And, I did attend church there, not so much because of the letter, but because my grandfather was pastor there.  And, I did meet this Dianne Bickle.  But that was as far as my interest in her went at that time.  Actually, since she was a year older than me, I didn't give her too much thought.  What neither she nor I knew was that some folks in the church were praying that we would get together.  And, the power of prayer …
 
A few months later Norm Zellers asked me if I would go with him and his wife June to a regional youth gathering in Shamokin.  He also asked if I cared if he would invite someone to accompany us.  I said yes, without any idea who this person would be.  I was very surprised when it turned out to be Dianne and even more surprised when we had a very good time together.
 
Norm followed up by taking the two of us out for ice cream several times with his family following the Sunday night services.  And, as my interest developed, I got enough nerve to call her and we began to spend time together.  We attended a church banquet, a concert, church activities, basketball games ….
 
Several things made it easier to spend more time together.  First, the church had prayer meetings on Tuesday and Thursday nights and we managed to attend both of these as well as Sunday services, morning and night.  Second, she had her own car, and this certainly made it much more convenient to be with her.
 
As our relationship developed we spent more time together.  I would come to the bank where she worked to meet her when she was done working on Friday nights at 8:30.  I would often go to her house and study on Sunday afternoons.  She would take me back to college following services and then she'd race home before her curfew.  We wrote daily letters when I was at home.  It was obvious that a special relationship had developed.
 
I don't remember when I actually asked her to marry me, but we were officially engaged on New Year's Day, 1962.  We had a big dinner at the Bickles with her family, my family and the Wolfs.
 
Since she had a good job at the First National Bank, we decided that we could afford to get married before I graduated.  With only six weeks to go, we planned a June wedding.  I found a summer job with the Sunbury Daily Item and we hoped to find an apartment by the end of the summer where we would spend my senior year together.  The next few months were very busy.
 
On June 2 we were married by Grandpa Wolf in Sunbury.  It was a beautiful windy day.  Dianne was beautiful in a dress borrowed from her cousin.  I bought a black suit for the wedding.  We had a big crowd and a nice reception at the YMCA.  We went to Watkins Glen for our short honeymoon.  The bank didn't want to give Dianne any time off for her wedding but she did take Monday off.
 
We moved in with the Bickles and began looking for an apartment.  We finally found one but before we could move in when it was available in September, we discovered that, unexpectedly, our family was about to grow.  We know that the Lord had all that planned so we stayed with the Bickles where we had our own "apartment" with a bedroom and a living room.  It worked perfectly for us while I finished my senior year.
 
Without any hesitation I can say that Grammy really has been my closest and best friend on this earth.  That is because, for both of us, Jesus is our best friend.  Ours has been a very special relationship, with very few disagreements, mainly because Jesus has been the center of our lives. He alone has united us and made us one.  We can't imagine what a married life would be like without the Lord at the center.  He has provided purpose and direction for our marriage both in the good and in the challenging times that develop in any married life.
 
We have prayed not only for you but also for your future spouse.  Pray with us that the Lord will lead you to a spouse who loves the Lord and puts Him first in his/her life.  Don't compromise and settle for anything else.  Life is too long to spend it with someone that doesn't put the Lord first.  We pray that your spouse may also be your best and dearest human friend on earth.

Saturday, June 25, 2022

So Much To Learn (LB)

LOOKING BACK - A feature where I repeat a blog that I had previously posted.  This was posted in 2012.

          It's that time of the year when our schools send out      another wave of graduates to face the world.  Hopefully they have learned their lessons well. 
           But so many of the important lessons in life are only learned through experience.  Recently somebody sent me a list of things that are learned with time.  I thought it was so good that I am passing it on to you.  I only wish that I had written it.  
          Here goes. 
(1)  I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as making a "life."  
(2)  I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll  miss them when they're gone from your life.  
(3)  I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.  
(4)  I've learned that people will forget what you said ... people will forget what you did ... but people will never forget how you made them feel. 
 (5)  I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.  
(6)  I've learned that life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.  
(7)  I've learned that we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.  
(8)  I've learned that money doesn't buy class.  
(9) I've learned that under someone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.  
(10)  I've learned that the Lord didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?  
(11)  I've learned that to ignore the facts does not change the facts.  
(12)  I've learned that the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.  
(13)  I've learned that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.  
(14)  I've learned that one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.  
(15)  I've learned that a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.  
(16)  I've learned that it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.  
 And finally,  (17)  I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.

Saturday, June 18, 2022

Fwd: Sleep

          SLEEP – a vital part of a healthy life.  Something that we all need and something that we crave especially when our bodies and minds are tired.
          But sometimes we folks find it very hard to sleep.  Maybe we have had too much caffeine or have eaten too much food too close to our bedtime.  Maybe our mind is clogged with problems and worries.  Maybe there is too much noise or other distractions around us.  Or maybe we have genuine physical problems confronting us.  And we may turn and toss and watch the clock, but sleep just doesn't come.
          There are numerous medicines that can help such a situation.  There are sound machines which can provide relaxation.  And doctors can provide suggestions which may help.
          But others face the opposite problem – they can fall asleep easily and quickly, especially at times when they don't want to sleep.  Physical problems can be a source of this problem.
          I am a diabetic and one of the results of a high sugar level is that I can suddenly doze off and not realize it.  It is very embarrassing when this happens while you are talking to someone or are in a conference.  It can be very dangerous when this happens when you are driving.  I have a friend who totaled his car when he fell asleep while driving.
          I am embarrassed to admit that this sometimes happens to me when I am praying.  But I have a feeling that I am not alone with this problem.
          Now I feel sorry for those who must work night shifts and must be wide awake and attentive during the long night hours.  It must be hard at times to not doze off or slumber.
          Thankfully we do know one who never slumbers or sleeps no matter the time or the situation.  He is always there to hear us and help us.  In Psalm 121:4 we are told, "Indeed, he who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep."  So we don't need to worry night or day for we are always in His care.
          Don Moen put this truth into music by writing the following words:
 
When you've prayed every prayer that you know how to pray
Just remember the Lord will hear and the answer in on it's way
Our God is able
He is mighty
He is faithful
And He never sleeps He never slumbers
He never tires of hearing our prayer
When we are weak He becomes stronger
So rest in His love and cast all of your cares on Him

Do you feel that the Lord has forgotten your need
Just remember that God is always working in ways you cannot see

Our God is able
He is mighty He is faithful
And He never sleeps He never slumbers
He never tires of hearing our prayer
When we are weak He becomes stronger
So rest in His love and cast all of your cares on Him (repeat * 2x)

So rest in His love and cast all of your cares
So rest in His love and cast all of your cares
So rest in His love and cast all of your cares on Him
 
Maybe this is a reminder that we all need.  Sleep in peace because our protector never sleeps or slumbers.
 
You can listen to it here as sung by the author. MOEN
Or you can listen to my favorite version as done by the Derric Johnson Vocal Orchestra.   ACAPELLA
 
   

Saturday, June 11, 2022

A Very Special Brother

This is another of my writings for my grandchildren.  This is in memory of my brother who would have celebrated his 77th birthday on June 4 if the Lord wouldn't have called him home 13 years ago.  And I still really miss him.


         My grandfather used to sing a song that said, "We are going down the valley one by one, with our faces toward the setting of the sun ..."  And the reality of this has certainly been in my mind recently.  During the past four years four of my closest friends have walked down the valley of death and been taken home to heaven.  First it was Norm Zellers, then Gary Varner, then Ralph Michel and now yesterday, my brother, Terry.   While I know that all four are in heaven, it is so hard to lose real life-long friends.  
          Their deaths were all so hard to take, but Terry's is the hardest.  It hurts.  We were always close.  We enjoyed being with each other. He was always so positive, even when he was suffering in his final days.   He had a strong Christian testimony and encouraged so many people.  He had wisdom and always had ways to solve problems.  He was always willing to help me. 
          I have so many memories ... sharing the mumps in Elizabethtown  ... enjoying our dog Frisky ... Christmas trips to Bethlehem ... walking to school with him up N. Queen St. in Lancaster ... stitches and broken bones ... playing baseball in the backyard ... trying to nail together a broken tree ... enjoying Cho-Chos in Sunbury ... waiting in line together to buy a television for nine cents ... camping at Mizpah Grove ... coaching his Teener baseball team ... getting pinned by him when we wrestled ... watching his football team win the league championship ... cheering him on as he wrestled in tournaments and in college  ... working together picking cherries ... laying down a squeeze bunt that scored him from third to win a church softball game ... taking our kids to Long's Park ... using his car to take a trip to Indiana when we were having trouble with our car ... working with him in Awana ... serving on the elder board together ... trips together, especially to Williamsburg  ...  going to a Penn State football game with him ... spending New Year's Day together at dad's ... Sunday lunches at Wendys ... dealing together with mother's sudden death ... checking on dad for us at times when we couldn't find him ... and so much more.  Good memories are so important, but there is now a void in my heart that will never again be filled.   
          I do thank the Lord that he took him peacefully yesterday while we sang hymns around his bed in the hospital.  We were singing "When We All Get To Heaven" as he breathed his last breath here on earth and was ushered into the presence of the Lord.  And I hope that he had the chance upon his arrival to wish mother, "Happy Mother's Day!".  I thank the Lord for the 63 years that I had the chance to have him as my brother and I look forward to sharing again with him throughout eternity.  For it is true, we are going down the valley one by one.
 

TERRY'S FAVORITE BIBLE PASSAGE – PSALM 16

Keep me safe, O God, for I have come to you for refuge.  I said to the LORD, "You are my Master!  Every good thing I have comes from you." The godly people in the land are my true heroes!  I take pleasure in them!  Troubles multiply for those who chase after other gods.  I will not take part in their sacrifices of blood or even speak the names of their gods.  LORD, you alone are my inheritance, my cup of blessing.  You guard all that is mine. The land you have given me is a pleasant land.  What a wonderful inheritance!  I will bless the LORD who guides me; even at night my heart instructs me. I know the LORD is always with me.  I will not be shaken, for he is right beside me.  No wonder my heart is glad, and I rejoice.  My body rests in safety. For you will not leave my soul among the dead or allow your holy one to rot in the grave. You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever.   (New Living Translation) 
 

A SONG SHARED BY TERRY IN HIS LAST E-MAIL UPDATE TO FRIENDS

 Oh I know you are never unkind, But Heavenly Father
Since you know my heart,Surely you can read my mind
Good people underneath the sea of grief, Some get up and walk away
Some will find ultimate relief
Chorus:  Home Free, eventually, At the ultimate healing we will be Home Free
Home Free, oh I've got a feeling, At the ultimate healing, We will be Home…Free
 
Out in the corridors we pray for life, A mother for her baby, A husband for his wife
Sometimes the good die young, It's sad but true
And while we pray for one more heartbeat, The real comfort is in you
Chorus:  Home Free, eventually, At the ultimate healing we will be Home Free
Home Free, oh I've got a feeling, At the ultimate healing, We will be Home…Free
 
Pain shows little mercy, And suffering's no respecter of age, of race or position
But I know every prayer gets answered, But the hardest one to pray is slow to come
Oh Lord, not mine, but Your will be done
Chorus:  Home Free, eventually, At the ultimate healing we will be Home Free
Home Free, oh I've got a feeling, At the ultimate healing, We will be Home…Free
 
Lord, Let it be... Home Free, oh, I've got a feeling, At the ultimate healing we will be Home, Home Free, oh, I've got a feeling, At the ultimate healing we will be Home
We will be Free
 

Saturday, June 4, 2022

50 Years (LB)

This blog was posted ten years ago on our 50th anniversary.  I'm reposting it for our 60th anniversary which came on June 2.


          50 years sounds like a long time.  A half century sounds even longer.  But to me, the past 50 years of married life have gone by so quickly.  And I would not trade them for anything.  

           Dianne and I were brought together by the Lord who has guided us with His faithfulness and presence.  We may be unusual because in 50 years we have never had a major disagreement or fight.  On our honeymoon the Lord gave us Psalm 92:13, "Those that be planted in the house of the Lord shall flourish in the courts of our God."  We have tried to follow those words for 50 years and we rejoice in God's goodness.  

          Now how do you describe 50 years?  Well let me make an attempt by listing 50 things for which I am especially thankful.  

1-3  are Craig, Ken and Tim, our three sons.  They love and serve the Lord and are great fathers.  What more could we want?   

4-6 are Kisha, Sandy and Wendy, our three daughter-in-laws.  We love them like daughters and thank God for them.  

7-13 are Zach, Josh, Taylor, Noah, Chloe, Lexie and Brodie, our seven grandchildren.  All have asked the Lord to be their Savior.  

14 -17 would be our parents.  All four loved the Lord and modeled Him to us.  All four are now with Him in heaven. 

18 would be our extended family.  We have been blessed with grandparents, uncles and aunts, brothers and sisters, in-laws, cousins and nephews and nieces who love the Lord.  

19.  Friends - we have been blessed with numerous friends who have enriched our married life over 50 years.  Many of them are now in heaven.  

20-23 would by the four homes that we have lived in.  Each were special provisions with special stories about them. The present one has now been our home for almost 42 years.  

24-25 Two estates settled, at the same time.  I'm not sure that I ever want to be an executor again but we learned much and saw so many special answers to prayer during that time.  

26 - My special job as a teacher/administrator for 39 years.  Few people can stay that long at one place and say that they enjoyed it all.  It was God's special provision to us and a definite answer to prayer when I had to choose from four job offers nearly 50 years ago. 

27 - Many part-time jobs over the years that supplemented a teacher's salary and enabled Dianne to stay at home and be a full-time mother.  These included writing questions for Educational Testing Service, teaching adult ed, doing homebound instruction, coaching, working for the Sunday News for 25 years, Books In Print editorial staff. chief statistician for PIAA basketball play-offs for 25 years, Cherry Hill Orchards, software prep for ISC, consultant for an Addison Wesley geometry textbook and working with my wife for the Lancaster County Election Bureau for ten years.  

28 - The opportunity for us to travel and visit 25 major cities in the U.S. and Canada as part of my job responsibilities.  This included speaking at five major national conventions.  

29 - Having a family ministry for 25 years including and presenting almost 100 programs a year.  We won't know until heaven how many families were touched by the Lord, but we do know that it taught our boys many lessons and developed in them special strengths and skills which they use today.  

30 - Over 40 years of ministry at Pinebrook working with children and music.  For most of those years it was a ministry in the summer but for the last ten it has been with hymn sings and retreats throughout the year. 

 31 - Multiple opportunities to serve, often side-by-side, for 50 years in our church.  This has included Sunday School (teachers, department leader, superintendent), music (piano, organ, solos, duets, choir, administration, Christmas Eve program leadership), adult Bible studies, elder and committees, prayer chain coordinators. 

 32 - Awana.  What can I say about the opportunity to lead for 30 years, to minister to children, and to provide training for adults.  Together we have now completed all three levels of Awana college training in Hershey, Pittsburgh and Chicago.  These years with this great program have been very special. 

 33 - 50 represent 18 operations and procedures under anesthesia.  They include numerous biopsies, only one of which has shown cancer.  In addition there have been many dozens of other tests.  But through all of this we thank God for the health and life that He has given us.  

          We don't know what lies ahead, but God is faithful and He goes before us.  So there are 50.  I could easily list another 50.  We just say, thank you Lord for 50 great years together.  Our desire is to continue to live for Him and to serve Him here on earth as long as He gives us the health and strength to do so.  And, by the way, 50 years goes faster than you can imagine.  So use your today to live for Him.


            Well 10 years have passed since this list was written and published, so I should try to add to it.

51 - 53  Three new additions to the family - Daniel, husband of granddaughter Taylor; Baby Cetnar, son of the Cetnars scheduled to join us in October; Corrine, wife of Joshua.
54 - 55  Two doctorates.  Daniel, chemical engineering; Joshua, chemistry.  Both at Penn State.
56 - 57  Two working on doctorates.  Noah at Salus University (eyes), and Chloe at the University of Maryland (English).
58 - 60 Replacement of three doctors that served us so well.  One was our outstanding dentist who cared for us for decades, another was Dianne's pacemaker surgeon, and the third is Dianne's family doctor, replacement yet to be named.  Actually, over the years there have been several other doctors and specialists - that happens when you live this long.

          Will there be another list ten years from now?  If there is it might begin with:    61 - 62 Enjoying a spectacular home here in heaven.